Jordon Moses says it's little things. Like sitting on a crowded bus and all the other seats fill up before someone will sit next to you.
Like people assuming you must have gotten into college or gotten hired through some kind of affirmative action program.
And even well-meaning comments like "you speak so well," seen through the lens of race can sound like "don't all black people speak Ebonics?"
It's not just frustrating or hurtful ... Moses says it's lonely.
Interested in Jordon's reading list of blogs? He shared some of his favorites: